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Inside the Sauce
How to Meet People at the Sauce
One of my favorite things to do is follow the chemistry I feel with a new person. There’s nothing like the thrill of grabbing that spark - or that curiosity, or that little voice, or whatever it is - and seeing where it wants to go. Risk-taking is one of my core...
What Makes the Sauce Unique?
Local Erotic Empowerment There are many wonderful sexy/sex party communities in the Bay Area. For a while, I mostly thought the Sauce was unique because it was local: no driving to Oakland or long-distance connections, but instead deepening right here in town with...
Consent and Agency
The "Two Feet" of Personal Responsibility Agency and consent work together like two feet in a dance—both are essential for navigating erotic exploration respectfully, maximizing growth and pleasuring and with reducing harm.Consent Makes for a Better Party At the...
New Saucy Groundrules
The Ideal "Container" If erotic exploration has too few boundaries in place—without a solid container for basic safety—people feel traumatized and terrified and no one wants to do it anymore. At the same time, if erotic exploration has too tight of a container—too...